(Matthew 1:18-25; Luke 2:1-20)
Mary spent the first three months of her supernatural pregnancy in Judea with her cousin Elizabeth. Meanwhile, Joseph was back in Nazareth, oblivious that a miracle had occurred. But he was soon to find out.
Mary Discovered to be Pregnant (Matthew 1:18)
Now the birth of Jesus Christ happened this way: While his mother Mary was betrothed to Joseph, before they came together, she was discovered to be with child by the Holy Spirit.
In essence, Matthew summarizes the same information Luke gaveâbut with one big difference. It was discovered (âfound,â KJV) that she was pregnant before she and Joseph came together in marriage. The use of the word discovered means it wasnât something Mary revealed to him. We arenât told how Joseph discovered it. But by the time Mary got back from Judea, and as the pregnancy continued, it would have become obvious to those who saw her. And it isnât difficult to surmise that someone went and told Joseph about it.
Though Matthew says, âshe was discovered to be with child by the Holy Spirit,â it is clear the miraculous aspect of the birth wasnât discovered by Joseph when he first heard about it.
Josephâs Righteous Response (Matthew 1:19-20a)
Then Joseph her [betrothed] husband, being righteous, and not wanting to make a public spectacle of her, determined to put her away secretly. But while he thought on these thingsâŠ
How Would You Respond?
Joseph receives word that his fiancĂ©, the one he contracted to marry, has turned up pregnantâand there is only one thing he knows for sure: It isnât his. The immediate, human reaction would be shock, sadness, hurt, and anger. After all, to Joseph this is a betrayal of a covenant, a disruption/shattering of his plans and hopes of the future.
Many people would react by immediately ending the engagement, and spreading to the world that they were cheated on by their fiancĂ©. In other words, many people seek revenge when they are wronged (or think they are wronged), and want to cause as much damage to the other personâs reputation as possible. Others might be willing to forgive, but only after verbally and emotionally beating down the âoffender,â making them grovel and beg for forgiveness, and making sure they know they are scum. In other words, they will only consider forgiveness (if you can even call it that) when they think theyâve made the âoffenderâ hurt enoughâbut they make sure to have it ready to bring back up at a momentâs notice if necessary.
But Joseph? He didnât respond that way at all.
The Righteous Response
Matthew tells us Joseph was ârighteousâ (âa just man,â KJV). And then he shows us what a righteous response is when we are hurt.
He did not want to make a public spectacle of her. In other words, he acted out of what was best for her. Certainly other people knew she was with child, and that it wasnât Josephâs (and you can imagine the whispering, What exactly was she doing when she was gone for three months?). This was embarrassing enough, and (in Josephâs mind) Mary would have felt ashamedâJoseph wasnât about to add to that pain and shame by making a public spectacle of her.
He decided to put her away (end the betrothal) quietly (NIV) or secretly (NASB). The Law of Moses had rules for these types of situationsâand in all cases, at least one person (always the man, and in some cases the woman too) was to be killed by stoning. That would be a very public thing, which would draw more attention to Maryâs (supposed) actions. And Joseph wasnât going to shame her more.
When you are hurt, do you try to get revenge on the one who hurt you? A righteous person wonât. Let that sink in.
Then Joseph contemplated the whole matter. He had made up his mind to put her away, but was still thinking about the whole situation. The point is, he didnât act immediately. He took the time to make sure he thought it through. In other words, he did not let his emotions dictate his response. And why? Because righteous people donât act on emotions, they act on thoughtfulness.
So he thinks about her instead of himself. He has compassion. He knows something must be done, but wants to make it as quiet as possible so as not to bring her more shame. And even after making that determination, he takes more time to contemplate it.
Then he sleeps on it (see verse 24) before carrying out anything.
All I Have to Do is Dream (Matthew 1:20b-21)
âŠbehold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, âJoseph, son of David, donât be afraid to take Mary to you to be your wife; because that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. And she will bring forth a son, and you shall call his name âJesus,â because He will save His people from their sins.â
A Messenger Appears
While Luke gives us the name of the angel who appeared to Zacharias and Mary, we arenât told who appeared to Joseph in this dream. Ultimately, it doesnât matter which angel it was. All that matters is this messenger1Â was from God.
He addresses him as âJoseph, son of David.â This is a subtle reminder about just who is in line for the throne of David. At this point, it is Joseph. In order for Jesus to be the King, the true heir of Davidâs throne, Joseph had to marry Mary.
The Messengerâs Message
Joseph made up his mind, but hadnât carried through with it yet, when he has a dream. And in the dream, an angel tells him to go ahead and marry Mary. Why? Because even though it appeared like she had done something wrong, sinned against Joseph, she actually hadnât. Instead, according to the angel, her pregnancy was as a result of the Holy Spirit.
I have had some crazy dreams before, but once I woke up, I didnât think they were real. Of course, I donât recall seeing any angels in my dreams either. But Joseph knows this messenger of God is not just a dream, but is telling him the truth. And that takes a lot of faith, because he is being asked to believe something that has never happened before in the history of mankind! He is being asked to believe something that goes against his emotions, something that goes against his understanding of how the world works. And outside of words (from the dream-angel, and potentially from Mary), he has no evidence that it is true.
Joseph chose to believe.
Generally speaking, we donât like being wrongâand frequently people (even Christians) will reject, ignore, or minimize evidence that might prove them wrong. We would rather dig in our heels and defend our first impression, our emotional response, because thereâs no way we could be wrongâŠ
But a righteous person is willing to (1) listen to the evidence, (2) do it with a truly open mind, and then (3) act on the evidence, not on emotion.
The Meaning of the Message
The angel reveals to Joseph that Mary is pregnant with a sonâand not just any son, but a Son who is a Savior. And in addition to marrying Mary, Joseph had another role to playâhe was to call the Son Jesus. It is interesting that Gabriel tells Mary she was going to name Him Jesus.2 Here, and angel tells Matthew he will name the child Jesus. And when Matthew gives the prophecy fulfilled explanation,3 he quotes Isaiah 7:14 as âthey shall call His nameâŠâ It all works together.
As we saw last time, the name Jesus means Jehovah is Salvation or Jehovah Saves. Joseph probably knew this, but the angel explains anyway, âYou will call his name Jesus, because He will saveâŠâ But what Joseph probably didnât know (if he was like the majority of Jews) is that this salvation wasnât from human oppression (like Rome), but from sin.
Ultimately, it is sin that we need salvation from. It is sin that separates us from God. And if we die separated from God, we will stay separated from Him forever. Heaven is not great because it is a place. Heaven is great because God and Jesus are there. And the only way we can have the joy of eternally being in Godâs presence is by being saved from our sins.
Matthew, I am sure, drops that little nugget in the angelâs message to give his Jewish readers a heads-up that Godâs Messiah isnât what they were expecting.
Prophecy Fulfilled! (Matthew 1:22-23)
Now all this was done, so that what the Lord said by the prophet might be fulfilled, specifically, âBehold, the virgin shall be with child, and shall bring forth a Son, and they shall call His name Immanuel,â which being interpreted is âGod with us.â
Matthewâs First Explanation of Events
Matthew, repeatedly in his gospel account, wants to make sure his readers donât miss the importance of certain events. So he will stop the narrative to say (in essence), This happened to fulfill prophecy. Which one? Here, let me quote it for you. Several of these Old Testament quotations had meanings when they were first given, but those meanings and applications were just shadowsâthey were ultimately pointing forward to Jesus.
Matthewâs first prophecy fulfilled moment deals with the virgin birth of Jesus. Lest his Jewish readers doubt the story, Matthew pulls up a quote from Isaiah 7:14 which foretold this. While it seems to initially have been foretelling the birth of Isaiahâs own son, Mahershalalhashbaz, it was ultimately pointing to Jesus.4Â Some people call this âdual-fulfillmentâ prophecy.
The prophecy spoke of a virgin who would become pregnant and have a son.5Â And not just that, but this Son would be called Immanuel, which means God with us. In other words, when Jesus is born, God is now literally with His people.
Joseph Obeys (Matthew 1:24-25)
Then Joseph, being raised from sleep, did as the angel of the Lord instructed him, and took his wife to himself, and did not know her [sexually] until she had brought forth her firstborn son. And he called His name Jesus.
Matthew greatly condenses the story at this point, which we will see as we skip back over to Luke’s narrative.
Joseph was awakened from his sleep (by God?), and did what he was instructed to do: take Mary as his wife. But the timeline of when he did this isnât as clear. Was it that day? Quite possibly. But Mary was still called Josephâs âbetrothed wifeâ after their journey from Nazareth to Bethlehem, close to the birth of Jesus. What we can say for certain is that any thought of ending the betrothal disappeared.
Joseph, probably out of honor to God, did not consummate his marriage to Mary until after Jesus was born. Had they done so, it could not be said that âa virginâŠshall bring forth a sonâŠâ But after Jesusâ birth, that was no longer an issue. Joseph did not âknowâ his wife until after Jesus was bornâwhich means he did afterwards. Mary was not a perpetual virgin.6
But weâre getting ahead of ourselves. Because in order to find out about the birth of Jesus, we need to go to Luke chapter 2.
The Taxing Trip to Bethlehem (Luke 2:1-5)
And it happened in those days, that a decree went out from Caesar Augustus, that all the world should be taxed [or counted]. (This taxing [census] was first made when Quirinius was governor of Syria). And all went to be taxed [registered], every one into his own city.
And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judea, into the City of David, which is called Bethlehem, (because he was of the house and lineage of David) in order to be taxed [counted] with Mary, his betrothed wife, who was great with child.
Rome says, âTime to Count You so We Can Tax Youâ
Caesar Augustus (also known as Octavian) was the second Caesar of Rome, the first being his uncle Julius. He ordered that a census be taken of âall the world.â This phrase, or âthe whole worldâ frequently refers to the Roman Empire in both biblical and non-biblical writings of that era. The purpose of the census was to levy a tax on the inhabitants. A Jewish writer of that era said Rome was exacting âtributeâ from Jerusalem.
Luke makes it clear this was the first census/taxing done when Quirinius was governor of Syria. This probably means nothing to you, but this has caused no end of criticizing of Lukeâs account, because secular historians havenât found evidence of a census done during the time Jesus was about to be born. But given that Justin Martyr (a Jewish Christian from the second century), when writing to a non-Christian, told him he could find the evidence in the Roman archives, it seems pretty clear there was documented proof this really happened just when Luke said it did.7
In order for this census to take place, everyone was to go to âhis own city.â Apparently, they were supposed to go to their ancestral land. Being a direct descendant of David, Josephâs inheritance would have been in Bethlehem, though it seems as though the land was no longer in his familyâs possession.8
Because of this census/taxation, Joseph left Nazareth (where he was living) and took Mary with him up to Bethlehem, the city of David. This wasnât exactly the easiest journey on a good day. It would have taken multiple days, and probably longer than normal, since Mary was getting close to giving birth.
BetrothedâŠstill?
In verse 5, Luke, the detailed historian, drops an interesting fact in our lapsâMary was still betrothed to Joseph at this time. They werenât officially or completely married yet. What exactly all that entails is a matter of speculation and debate. It seems clear Joseph had taken her as his wife (taken her into his house?) based on Matthew 1:24. She traveled to Bethlehem with him, which was not permitted in ancient Jewish culture unless they were married. Yet Luke still calls them âbetrothed.â Some possibilities have been suggested:
- They were married, but hadnât consummated the union. This seems to be the majority viewpoint in commentaries, but it seems odd for the detail-oriented Luke to use the word âbetrothedâ when other, more specific words could have been used which wouldnât lead to ambiguity or confusion.
- Joseph and Mary remained betrothed until after the birth of Jesus, both bearing some level of social shame from the pregnancy, so that when Jesus was born, He would only be the Son of God, and not son of Joseph.9Â While interesting, and it could be right, this is ultimately conjecture.
- Joseph and Mary were officially married sometime before the birth of Jesus, because Joseph appears to have the right to âknowâ Mary, but did not take advantage of that right until after Jesusâ birth. This right wouldnât have been available to him during a betrothal.10Â But this could be reading too much into Matthew 1:25.
- If the conception of Jesus was near the beginning of their betrothal, and betrothals lasted a year (as some claim), their betrothal period wouldnât be over for another couple months.11Â But it would certainly make things awkward to have a wedding ceremony with a new baby present (maybe thatâs why they stayed in Bethlehem instead of going back to Nazareth right away?).
I wish I had a good answer to explain when they became officially married (before or after the birth of Jesus), and what it was that changed it from betrothed to official. If it is the consummation of the marriage, then that alone proves the Catholic doctrine of the perpetual virginity of Mary to be falseâunless they want to say Mary and Joseph were never officially married (which they would reject).
(We will continue this study next week)
1Â The Greek word angellos has been Anglicized, or transliterated, instead of being translated in almost every Bible. The Greek word means âmessenger,â and the context must determine whether a human or heavenly messenger is under consideration. This is dealt with more extensively in my book War in Heaven War on Earth: What Revelation Meant to the Original Readers and What It Means for Us Today.
2Â Luke 1:31.
3Â Matthew 1:22-23.
4Â Though some are very adamant that Isaiah 7:14 can only be speaking of Jesus, the context of Isaiah 7 and 8 (the only two times in the Old Testament the word âImmanuelâ is used) requires an initial application to the time soon after the prophecy was given. The things said of âImmanuelâ in Isaiah 7 match the things said of Mahershalalhashbaz in Isaiah 8âthese being signs of the overthrow of the kings of Syria and Israel, who were both tormenting the kingdom of Judah.
5 Isaiah 7:14 literally says The virgin  or This virgin (scholars say it could be either), and appears to be speaking to or about a virgin in the kingâs palace (tradition says Isaiah married a daughter of the king of Judah). So when he says, âThis virgin shall conceive and bear a son,â it wouldnât mean she would be a virgin after conceiving, but that she was a virgin when Isaiah said it. But when Matthew uses it and applies it to Jesus, he says it had a larger meaning and greater fulfillment by a virgin being pregnant and having a childâwhile still a virgin.
6Â We will deal with this issue more in detail when Jesusâ brothers and sisters show up in the narrative.
7Â This is a very shortened response to what is an interesting historical topic. For more details on it, see the commentaries on this passage by Adam Clarke, Matthew Henry, Henry Alford, and others.
8Â The Old Testament required that all family land was kept in the family, unless it had to be sold to pay for debtsâand then it was to be returned to the family in the 49th yearâthe year of Jubilee. That Joseph didnât have anywhere to stay indicates the land had been sold, and possibly that the year of Jubilee had been (again) ignored by the Jews.
9Â This was suggested to me via text message from a friend who hadnât previously considered the issue.
10Â This was suggested to me via text message from a friend and long-time evangelist for the Lord.
11Â I have not found anyone arguing this, but I present it as another possibility.