(Luke 2:40-52)
A Decade-Plus Summarized (Luke 2:40)
And the child grew, and became strong in spirit, filled with wisdom: and the grace of God was on Him.
The growth of the Messiah
Like all humans (except Adam and Eve), Jesus had to start life as a baby, and then go through the growth process. When Luke tells us âthe child grew,â first and foremost he means Jesus grew up physically. He basically skips twelve years of Jesusâ life in Nazareth. What transpired during those years, we arenât told (though that didnât stop some early writers from making up stories), except that He grew.
But it wasnât just physically.
He became strong in spirit. Many modern translations, due to a Greek variant, are missing the words âin spirit.â But the majority of manuscripts contain these words.1Â And itâs good that they do, because Luke isnât telling us that Jesus became a muscular 12-year old. He is speaking of Jesusâ maturity, His self-control, His character.
He was filled with wisdom. The Greek word is sophia, from which we get our English word sophisticated (which means something that takes wisdom to understand). Jesus grew in knowledge, but also in understanding how to apply that knowledge. You can have a lot of experiences, and maybe even a lot of knowledge about different things, but you donât have wisdom until you can take that knowledge base and learn lessons from it for your life (which could be as simple as donât try to change a power receptacle without turning off the proper breakers firstâdonât ask me how I know thatâŠ).
Wisdom is a sign of maturity. Kids may know all about their favorite YouTube personality, their favorite video game, or their favorite football team, but knowing those things doesnât mean they are mature or wise. If, perhaps, they see their teamâs quarterback retire early because of all the injuries heâs endured, and they take from that the lesson that what we do in life today will affect us years from nowâand especially if they apply that lesson to their spiritual lives, not just their physicalâthat is wisdom. Jesus grew in this area, and all you have to do is look at His many farming metaphors (parables) to see He excelled in wisdom.
The favor of God was on Him.
Luke says the âgraceâ of God was on Him. Throughout my entire life, Iâve heard folks say the definition of grace is âunmerited favor.â But really, that isnât the meaning. It really just means âfavor.â Itâs no surprise that some translations (probably because of our misguided definition) chose to use the word âfavorâ instead of âgrace.â2
Certainly you can see the issue if we say Godâs âunmerited favorâ was on Jesus. Jesus actually merited Godâs favor. And thatâs exactly what this means. The Father looked at Jesus with gladness, with full approval of His words and deeds. Noah âfound grace in the eyes of the Lordâ because of his actions. While not perfect, Noah was walking with God. And especially when compared to the rest of the world at the time, Noah was âperfect in his generations.â He stood out as one who was actively trying to do Godâs will.3
Yes, it is true that none of us merit Godâs favor, because âAll have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.â4Â But none of us will receive Godâs favor if we arenât making the effort to walk in His paths, His light, His commands. We have to make the effort, for we will be judged on our works.5
Jesus, however, truly earned Godâs favor. We could really paraphrase it this way: God was proud of Jesus.
Looking for the âLostâ Lord (Luke 2:41-45)
Now His parents went to Jerusalem every year at the feast of the Passover. And when He was twelve years old, they went up to Jerusalem according to the custom of the feast.
And when they fulfilled the days, when they returned, the child Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem. And Joseph and his mother did not realize it. Instead they, supposing Him to have been with relatives, went a dayâs journey. And they sought Him among their relatives and acquaintances.
And when they didnât find Him, they turned back again to Jerusalem, seeking Him.
Another example of faithfulness
God chose Joseph and Mary for a reason. Weâve already seen Josephâs faithfulness to God in how he responded to each dream God gave him (he got up and obeyed). Weâve seen Maryâs faithfulness (she said to Gabriel, âBehold, [I am] the servant of the Lord. Let it be according to your wordâ). And here we see their continued joint faithfulness. It wasnât a question for either of them whether to go to Jerusalem for the Passover feast. It was a given. They were going, because that is what God commanded. Oh that people today would have the same attitude!
So their travel to Jerusalem when Jesus was twelve years old was not a new experience for them or for Jesus. They did this every year.
The family leaves Jerusalemâwell, most of them do
At the end of the feast (notice they didnât leave worship earlyâŠ), they started the 80-mile trip back to Nazareth.6 They didnât make the trip by themselves. There was a caravan. It is possible that most of Nazareth more or less travelled together. This had to be a big enough group that they assumed Jesus was somewhere among their familyâbut they couldnât actually see Him. This group involved not just Joseph and Mary (and whatever other children they had by this point7), but extended family and friendsâagain, all pointing to a sizeable group.
Some have called Joseph and Mary bad parents for not knowing where their own Son was for a whole day. In todayâs âhelicopter parentingâ age, many parents hover over their children so much they are never able to become independent. But that is a relatively new phenomenon. If you read biographies from the 1800s, you will often see children as young as eight and nine years old being sent on days-long trips on horseback to towns. They were raised up to be able to take care of themselves from an early age. Given Jesusâ growth and maturity (something sadly lacking in young peopleâand many older people tooâtoday), it isnât really concerning that they didnât know exactly where He was.
They assumed He was with family or friends elsewhere in the caravan. Some have said the men traveled together and the women and children traveled together. If this be the case, Jesus at twelve might have been assumed by Mary to be with Joseph and the men, while Joseph might have assumed He was with Mary. If they traveled by families, they probably thought Jesus was with His cousins or other family members. They werenât worried about Him not being right there within eyesight.
But when the caravan stopped travelling for the day (approximately 20 miles),8 they looked for Him, asked about Him, but couldnât find Him. Eventually they realized Jesus wasnât with them. They were worried, and turned back around to Jerusalem to find Him. Weâre not told if anyone else joined them (family or friends) on this return trip, but it is at least possible that some did.
Jesus Appears after Three Days (Luke 2:46-51)
It happened that after three days, they found Him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, both hearing them and asking them questions. And all that heard Him were amazed at His understanding and answers.
And when they saw Him, they were amazed. And His mother said to Him, âSon, what have you treated us this way? Behold, your father and I have been seeking you in distress.â
And He said to them, âWhy were you seeking me? Didnât you know that I must be in my Fatherâs house?â
And they didnât understand the saying He spoke to them.
After three daysâŠ
Jesus is unseen by those who love Him most for three days, and then He is finally seen. 21 years later, Jesus dies and is buried, unseen by those who love Him most for three days, and then is final seen again (after the resurrection). It may only be a coincidence, but if it is, it is an interesting one.
Jesus in the temple
They found Jesus in the temple. Not the temple itself, but the temple complex, as only Levitical priests were allowed inside the temple itself. This is the third time Luke records important events taking place here (Zacharias and Gabriel; Simeon prophesying about baby Jesus; and now Jesus being found in the temple). This seems to be a theme for Luke.9
In this part of the temple, rabbis and experts gathered to teach and discuss the Law of Moses. Jesus was sitting with them, listening to them speak, but also asking questions. It is interesting to contemplate what kind of questions Jesus was asking. It doesnât seem to be purely informational questions, because the teachers were astonished at His answers. It seems more likely that Jesusâ questions were along the lines of, âBut what aboutâŠâ and then quoting a Scripture. He used this approach during His ministry some 18 years later.10
Jesusâ wisdom and understanding was evident to the teachers. They could tell this kid took the Law of Moses seriously, and could talk about it on a highly intelligent levelâchallenging perhaps even some of their own understandings. According to the Mishnah, Jewish boys began their religious training at age 13. So Jesus having all this wisdom at twelve would have certainly shocked them. It was probably a very enjoyable time for the teachers to see one so young so interested. But when He grew up and continued to challenge themâletâs just say they werenât fond of it anymore.
Why did you treat us this way?
Mary and Joseph were also amazed at the interaction between Jesus and the teachers of the Law. Partially they may have been amazed that Jesus was actually at the temple. Partially they may have almost given up hope of finding Him, so finding Him aliveâand not seeming to be worried about His parentsâmight have amazed them. But there is no doubt they were amazed as well by Jesus interacting with the highest teachers of the Law of Mosesâand amazing them!
But Maryâs main concern at the time wasnât pride for her Sonâs spiritual intelligence and wisdom. It was that she had finally found her Son. But it was her emotions, stewing for three days, that came out when she spoke to Him. âWhy did you treat us this way?â She took Jesusâ staying behind as a personal affront to her and Joseph.
âYour father and I have been seeking you in distress.â The word âdistressâ means âintense pain.â11 Mary was worried sick. And she wanted Jesus to know how it affected her. But Jesus never apologized. Instead, He addressed her emotion with logic. Itâs not always an effective tactic, but Jesus knew what He was doing.
Didnât you know?
Jesus asked her, âWhy were you seeking me? Didnât you know I must be in my Fatherâs house?â This question is a lot deeper than it might first appear. Literally translated, Jesus says, âBecause of what did you continually seeking me?â That is, Jesus seems almost perplexed that it took them so long to figure out where He would be.
Then He says (literally), âBecause could you not see that in these of my Father IâI must be?â Some translations say, âDid you not knowâŠâ but Jesus says, âBecause could you not seeâŠâ To Jesus, it should have been obvious where He would be.
Translations differ on whether it should read, âin my Fatherâs houseâ or âabout my Fatherâs business.â Both of these are interpretations (and not without merit), and not translations. Jesus actually said, âin these of my FatherâŠâ So what are the âtheseâ Jesus was talking about?
- Perhaps it is the Old Testament Scriptures. If this is the case, Jesus is asking them, âDidnât you realize that I would be where Godâs laws are being studied and discussed?â If this is the case, then âabout my Fatherâs businessâ makes the most sense.
- Perhaps it is a reference to the many buildings of the temple complex. If this is the case, then âin my Fatherâs houseâ makes the most sense.
Ultimately, whichever option you choose (and perhaps there is another one as well), they all point to Jesus saying, You should have known Iâd be here.
Why did Jesus say they should have known it? Because He had to be there. The word Jesus uses (translated âmustâ) means it was a moral necessity. He needed to be there.
Huh?
Mary and Joseph didnât understand what Jesus meant. Most likely, this means they didnât understand why He thought they should have figured it out earlier instead of taking three days to finally look at the temple. I donât think Luke means they didnât understand what Jesus was referring to be âthese of my Father.â
This might give us some encouragement, because sometimes we are slow to perceive what might be obvious to others. It doesnât mean we are dumb, it just means we havenât come to that understanding yet. It might be due to our circumstances, our emotions, or our background. But we canât ever use those as an excuse to not seek to come to better understanding of Godâs word.
So Jesus went back home with them to Nazareth, and was an obedient Son. But Mary never forgot what Jesus said to her that day. She âkept all these sayings in her heart.â Literally, she pondered them both intently and continually.12Â Even though she knew Jesus was the Son of God, that He was born to be the Savior and King, and that it wasnât going to be a pleasant roleâJesus was still her 12-year-old Son. She seems to be trying to come to grips with Jesusâ larger role.
Jesus Grows Some More (Luke 2:52)
Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature, and in favor with God and man.
Verse 40 reads very similarly, and covered approximately twelve years. Verse 52 covers eighteen years. Jesus got older, and got taller, and got wiser.
Jesus grew in wisdomâthis is an incredible thought! Some have the mistaken idea that Jesus, even as a baby, had full knowledge of everything. But instead, by becoming a human, Jesus took on physical limitations. He âemptied Himselfâ of the limitless power of being God, and became a humanâa human that needed to grow physically, to grow mentally, to grow spiritually. He increased in wisdom, He learned things.
If Jesus HimselfâGod in the fleshâneeded to grow in wisdom, what does that say about us? Surely we need to do so even more, right? So why are there Christians who never study Godâs word? Doesnât this say (by their actions) that they think they have no more need to grow? That (by their actions) they are claiming to be more wise than even Jesus?
But Jesus also increased in favor with God. This is the same word translated âgraceâ in verse 40. Jesus, as He grew, gained more favor with God. He earned more favor with God. Why? Because He continued to obey God, continued to walk in the Light of Godâs word.
The official doctrine of the Catholic Church is that Jesus was impeccable. That is, they say it was impossible for Jesus to sin. He could not have made the choice to sin. If that is the case, then Jesus wasnât actually ever tempted, because He didnât have the capability to sin. Yet the Bible holds out Jesus as an example of someone who was tempted, but didnât give into the temptation. And if Jesus had no ability to choose to sin (if He had desired to), then there is no real reason for God to bestow His favor on Himâbecause Jesus wouldnât have actually made the choice to do Godâs willâHe was (in essence) forced to. All this to say, the fact that Jesus increased in favor with God means Jesus was making the choice to do the Fatherâs willâand making the choice means He had the choice. And this is massively more impressive and meaningful to us as an example to follow.
He also grew in favor with man. How could He not? He was always truthful, upright, sincere, trustworthy, faithful⊠He was perfect. But therein came the problem once He began His ministryâthe religious leaders didnât want the truth spoken by faithful followers of God. They wanted⊠well, weâre getting ahead of ourselves.
What Does This Mean for Us Today?
This passage makes a great outline. Burton Coffman shared this great note on this passage:
This passage formed the basis for many a great sermon of the Restoration, in which were these analogies: (1) Many continue along life’s way believing that Jesus is in their company, when actually he is not. (2) The search for Christ begins with kinsfolk and neighbors, but he is not with them either! (3) Then, let men return to Jerusalem, that is, to the gospel that was first preached in Jerusalem, to the true teachings of the New Testament. (4) Sure enough, Jesus was found in the temple, a figure of his church; and that is where he is found today.
Never be afraid to ask questions. Jesus was in the temple, listening and asking questions. He was still growing in wisdom, and this stop at the temple may have been a highlight of his childhood years, something He remembered fondly as an adult. When you donât understand why we do things we do religiously, ask. When you donât know how certain passages can be harmonized, ask. When you want to know what certain words, phrases, or even sections of Scripture mean, donât be afraid to ask.
You need to grow in wisdom too. If Jesus needed it, you need it. Never stop studying Godâs word!
1 âMost MSS (A ΠΚ Ă1,13 33 Ć) read ÏΜΔÏΌαÏÎč (pneumati, “in spirit”) after “became strong,” but this looks like an assimilation to Luke 1:80. The better witnesses (Ś B D L N W pc lat co) lack the word.â âNET Bible footnote at this verse. What represents a âbetter witnessâ is a matter of debate, and I am not in agreement with their assertion, especially here.
2Â ESV, RSV, NRSV, and MLV all use âfavor,â while KJV, NKJV, NIV, and NASB all say âgrace.â Alexander Campbell translated it âadorned with a divine gracefulness,â making it an attribute of Jesusâ character instead of how God viewed Him.
3Â See Genesis 6:5-9.
4Â Romans 3:23.
5Â 2 Corinthians 5:10.
6Â This is assuming they followed the custom of many Galillean Jews to bypass Samaria.
7Â Given Jamesâ status as an âelderâ in the church at Jerusalem (Acts 15) approximately AD 51, he almost certainly couldnât have been more than a few years younger than Jesus.
8Â So claims the footnote in my BibleâThe Open Bible: Expanded Edition, King James Version.. This is also the number mentioned by Ted Clarke in Preaching School Notes (Bible Institute of Missouri: 2008-2010) e-Sword version.
9Â The establishment of the church in Acts 2 takes place at the temple as wellâthis also written by Luke.
10Â John 10:33-35; Matthew 22:41-46.
11Â Thayerâs definitions. E-Sword version.
12 This is a piece of evidence that Luke probably interviewed Mary prior to writing his Gospel account. Only Mary would know that she never forgot what Jesus said that day, or that she continually pondered it.